This is my beloved cute baby boy! Oh...He's holding our 'doggie' and he posted the cute face of him. I guess not many people seen this face b4, as according to my frens, he is damn cool and looks angry most of the time! Well he's not actually! And i love him so much..duno y!!! *grinning*

LJC, *heart* u!

Specially for u

For those who know him, you will see that the pooh bear looks like my baby boy!

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This bouquet I made for his convo. I spent a month plus, arraggin and preparing this special gift for him. From buying the fancy wrappers for the flowers, to making the pooh bear's spectacles, then learning how to make the flowers and lastly, wrapping it and making the card! I hope he loves it!

P/S: I luv u baby boy, You look smart u know?

Can't take my eyes off u =P

Baby's Convo

Baby had his diploma convocation last weekend and his family and I went to his convo. Hong Keat also came and we all celebrated his success and shared his happiness. We went to his uncle and aunt's hse for visit and had the most awesome lunch at a Japanese restaurant! Congrats baby!

Yipeeee! See u soon!

Baby...


Seeing you soon!

And that is tomorrow!
Yipee


Love u lots

More things learnt from the book

I feel like as if being an expert sharing those 'relationship tips' around in my blog. Well those tips are from the book : Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. Today i wanna share something from the book as well, which is known as 'The Rubber Band Men'

As we all know how rubber band is rite? It is very elastic, where we can pull them to the max and then it will sprang back to the original shape after being let go

Men are like this you know?? ^^

Just like rubber band, men can strecth out to the max and then sprang back. It's their natural cycle too..From the book, it is stated that men constantly need to be autonomy while simultaneously want to be intimate with women they love. When he wants to be intimate and closer with his woman, his independence lessen and thus, his rubber band is not pulled too tight. At certain time, he will feel that he has lost his 'self' so he begin to pull back to regain his independency. When he regain his 'self' identity and independency, his rubber band is tight again and he wil then sprang back to his partner for love.

So, for girls, do try to understand this natural cycle of men and do not blame them when they wanna do their own things and be alone. Well, for men, do try to understand too that it's not wrong for the girls to get close to u too..Try to tolerate and understand k? Wish those in relationship always happy!

I wish we are too baby!

Love is Always With Me

I read other people's blog and the keep saying love quotes and questioned what is love actually? I asked myself this question too...What is love mean to me? Is it like having a bf is love? Or getting pressie during valentines is love? Or talking on phone for ages and smsing non stop is being in love? Are all these love? Love is a feeling where having affection towards a person...according to wikipedia...





For me, I feel it's not easy for two person in love and being together. Sometimes although two people love each other very much but many reasons can tear them apart. I consider myself in love and very lucky to find someone who willing to walk this journey with me..this guy is the love of my life.





We broke up before but we noticed that it's not worth it to just let go of someone who loves us with all our heart, over some silly reasons...Finding someone who loves u as u are is not easy, found already y let go??


Just now I read one girl's blog. I got no idea who is she but she said she reali loves her bf. I read her blog eventually reflected on myself. I used to write all those lovey dovey post in my blog too. Erm..yea now still write la but not so frequent anymore. ^_^


Love is like seasons in the year. There are spring, summer, autumn and winter. When we first in love, we are in spring where to us, our lover is perfect and the love is blooming and growing..Then, soon we noticed that our partner is not as perfect as what we think, the relationship turns hot where arguements happen. During summer, we need to put in effort to make sure the plants turn out well, by adding water and fertilizer. Same goes to relationship. If arguements not being handled well and no effort put in to make the relationship work, then the relationship wil dies...When we move to autumn, the relationship turns to more stable type or it might end up just like that if not taken care during summer. For winter, hibernation occurs where by both couple trust each other well and spend more time for themselves, doing things they like...

I already went through all these stages with my bf and now, I feel like I'm back to spring whereby we discover much more each other. We are learning what read from the book 'Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus'. Seriously, now that I know how to deal with his 'in cave' mood, and support him, he eventually returns the attention and reassurance that I want from him. He begins to appreciate my support and tolerance. He thanked me for being with him...[Being in the sense that I tell him that I'm always there if he need me]. Be reminded that man dun reali need women to tell them how she can help him, but rather just be supportive with whatever decision they make, and purely just be there if he needs u. There is no need to bug him to ask him tell u how he feels. [He will tell if he wants to]

Seriously, this reali works...Just 2 days back my bf went into cave and he told me he wasn't feelin happy..And I just let him be alone saying if he need me, I'll be there in anyway which I can offer. And he simply said TQ. Shortly after few days, he told me he's feeling better because I'm by his side [although physically I'm not].

Those people whom always say sorry for hurting their partner, I feel if they know how their partner is reali like, u will neve hurt them anymore..Read that book...It helps me a lot..At least I know why he acts so crazily once awhile, ignoring me, avoiding me, saying not my problem but as if it is...in the end hurts me too much...but now...no more...We're getting closer each day because we know how different we are and not to change each other...!!

It's not tough to achieve this..if you and ur love want to do it!

p/s: I love u JC...mean it

Fried chicken with spicy mayonnaise sauce!

Here I'm going to upload a new chicken recipe. *wink*

I wanna try this recipe as soon as I get bck to kl this weekend, for my beloved baby

Fried chicken with spicy mayonnaise sauce

Ingredients:

• Chicken parts, or chicken breast meat [cut into small parts] eg. 2 chicken thigh
• 1 egg *
• 1/2 teaspoon salt *
• 1 tbsp corn clour *
• 1 tbsp plain flour *
• Oil
• 4 tbsp mayonnaise sauce #
• 1 tbsp tomato sauce #
• 2 tbsp chili sauce #
• 1 tbsp sugar #
• 1 tbsp lime juice #

P/S: * to marinade chicken, # for sauce mixture

Cooking method:

1. First, marinade chicken with the marinade ingredients for 30 minutes


2. Then heat up oil and deep fry chicken till golden brown. Drain from excess oil


3. Heat up 1 tbsp oil and sauce mixture and chicken are poured into the wok. Toss and mix well. Serve when hot.

Its easy right? Try it out

Getting to apply things learnt from a book

A book? What book? You might be wondering what 'things' that I learnt from this 'book'. The book that I am talking about is 'Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus'. I read through the shorter version of this book. I personally think this book is very very useful for those in relationship or even not. Well the good thing is that we get to know more about ourselves and ur partners' characteristics.



Take for example, I learnt about something called 'Retreat into the Cave' for Men(M), and 'Wave' for Women(W).

Briefly, when M retreat into their 'caves', it means that they want to be alone to sort out some solutions for their problems, which not necessary related to the W. Even though they might not reali look for a solution, they just wan to drag off their mind for a while till fresh again to deal with their problems later. As W's naturally talks to solve their problems, they might find it difficult to accept having their partner retreat and 'back-off' from them. This draw the W closer and chase after the M, going after their problems, asking them to tell how they feel, when the M wish to be alone that time. The worse thing is that, the W will feel that they did something wrong which cause their M to avoid them [which from the beginning it does not hav anything to do with the W]. The W will feel hurt, their feelings not being cared by the M, felt sorry for them and start blaming themselves for the M's retreat from them. This is a natural cycle that happens to most M, and when W try to chase after M, or wait for M to come out from their caves, W will eventually break the M's natural cycle, making M more stress and not normal. Thus, W should do something happy to avoid themselves from too pushing their M out from their caves, or making M more stressed. When M retreat, just feel free and let them be alone, until they are fine, they will eventually come bck and offer the love and attention you need. For W, try to und this cycle of men, and its just so natural for them, its just like W being emotional during period! ^^. Try to be understanding. Tell ur M that u'll always be there if they need you, and dun chase them for the reason for distress. [Coz they might not even know y]. If you understand this, you will not hav any problem with men!


The 'wave' happens to W. W naturally offers love and care to ppl they love and care. And they expect M to b the same, offering love to them without being asked. But the truth is, M wil only offer something which is being asked. [So dun expect ur M to know what you want]. 'Wave' is a cycle happens to W too. When then wave rises, it represents a W's love is rising and she can gives all love and care she has to ppl, but then when their loves reaches the max, it will go down and crash like the waves. That time, their mood and emotion will drop so low that they need loves and attention to rise their love level back. At this time all W want is to talk about their feelings and need good listener, to support and understand, n sympathize with them without offering solutions [M naturally try to solves problem]. However, M feels W are the same like them, like to be alone and leave them aside when W needed them most.

The thing that most couples find not common and depressing is things like, 'You dun understand my feelings', 'You gives me too much stress', 'Can't you just be happy?', 'I dun feel you around even if you're here'...and etc. [I myself used these so much]. This because we treat our partner like treating ourselves. We want them to love us like how we love ourselves. Now, we use back the cases that we see up there:

For M:
When they are into their caves, they wish to be alone and not to be asked or giv solutions by W. M will feel as if useless in dealing with their problems. When in caves, W chase after M to talk to them, to know how they feel and offers solution to M, as W themselves talk when they are not happy, so they expect their M to be the same. Thus, creating stress and problems of misunderstanding btwn them

For W:
When they are down during crash of their mood waves, they need to fill up with love and concern from their M, and need attentions. But M thought W are like them, when moody W wanted to b alone as well, but which is not. So, W will think their M not understanding of their feelings and turn more depressed. Thus, making both moody and unhappy with each other.

Conclusion, understanding characteristics of M and W, u will know what they want and what you can do. I am now facing the same problem, where my love is in cave now, and I dun chase him asking him what happen, coz if he wanna tell, he will tell me eventually. So how not to worry or chase him over this??? I drag myself from thinking, by writing this post now. Haha..I hope he feels better

Baby, if u're reading this..I wan u know I'm always there if u need me!

Steambot with beloved people

Yesterday I went steambot with family as promised by my mum! Yipee..Lots of food..Lots of drinks..Surely gained weight le =P Nvm, try cut bck wen bck to KL nxt week! LOLZ..


See the food that we ate there? Well its just part of it...that place has many many type of food man..But i got no time to take pic of all of it..Need to eat ma! Yummy! *grin*

For our steambot

Big prawns

Me..waiting to eat

Seafoods!!!

Desserts..cakes and kuih

Our steambot

Fish chop BBQ [ready made: just need to pick the type of meat]

Crab shell with stuffed meat *thumbs up*

Too happily eating

My dessert ice cream with jelly

Heong heong's favourite: Jellyssss

Crabsss

Steam pao (dim sum)

Sushi bar

The restaurant

Finish eating..tadda

Us!

Now here's the dart playing place. Each customer is given a chance to throw 3 darts. If you get to hit certain location you'll get to redeem discount vouchers worth either 10, 30 or 50% off the next visit. And you can reuse the coupon for 4 times! Great rite? We managed to get 3 10% discount coupons yesterday!

Yeah! full full!

Loving mum

Oh gosh mummy going to bring us go bbq steambot tonite. Not only that, she bought bamboo charcoal cleanser products worth RM60 for us... 2 bamboo vinegar cleanser and 1 bamboo charcoal cleanser. Well all because she loves us and that promoter told her that after acne prob solved, need to use the bamboo vinegar cleanser pulak! Haha yipee I got to hav that new cleanser as well.. For you info, that bamboo charcoal cleanser reali is working! Haha..try it out if you want to hav clear skin too!

This bamboo vinegar cleanser is to b used after ur acne problem is solved..It moisturises ur skin and control pimples from coming back!

For more info click Bamboo Charcoal Product!

See what mummy bought for me?The black one i bought it! Haha

P/S: TQ mummy for the cleanser! And steambot tonite! update soon k?

Happy happy for them

I see this video also happy for them le! Make me think of loukong...

Anniversary le

Happy anniversary for 3 years n 1 month baby!

Good good good

Yipee! The bamboo charcoal cleanser begins to work on my pimples..Well the pimples reduced but of coz those small small tiny white bumps I duno whether it will go away or not..Yes...faster recover before I meet my loukong!